*Rituals Cont*
Group sex magick rituals
"There is no act of passion that shall not be a hymn in mine honour."
Aleister Crowley
A group sex magickal act is not a kinky party; see it as a serious dedication of a number of people to a certain goal. The fact that magick works synergistic is a very good reason for a group to practice (sex) magick. No one in the world can demand you to ever do a sex magickal act against your will. But you may also consider that social behavior has taught us to regard our bodies and sexual expressions as being sinful - thus keeping us from showing our nudity and sexuality in public. So the big question I'd like to ask, and I don't know the answer, is: how natural is the aversion of many people against group sex?
Group rituals are for advanced sex magicians. Every participant must know how to raise, control and direct energies. They must be determined to work magick with their sexuality; if their aim is to sexually freak out with many partners they will ruin the ritual. In a group ritual it is absolutely not possible to cross barriers, the group has to agree on possible borders on beforehand. If someone namely does something another member of the group feels uncomfortable with, the whole energy chain will be broken and the ritual will be worthless. Generally spoken group rituals can follow the techniques described under solo and duo sex magick. They can be masturbatory, in the form of having intercourse,or in the form of a large oral circle. Of course establishing an atmosphere of contact, trust and openness is very important within a group ritual. A group meditation, holding hands in a circle feeling the energy circulating, or maybe chanting a mantra together are very good to start with. A larger group will have a leader, a person not participating in the ritual, but spiritually and magically guiding the group. The leader will do the banishments and take care of the timing and process of the ritual. This gives the group the opportunity to be completely sexually involved, raising enormous energy. The leader will from time to time ask the group to spread the raised energy amongst the group and to focus it into the direction of the chosen goal. The leader will also harmonize the energies by directing them with his will, and raising them if needed, from a place with much energy to a place within the group with less energy. And at the peak of the sexual energy the leader will ask the group to work towards orgasm and channel all their energy into the magical goal.
I would like to end this piece with the suggestion of a group ritual for the healing of mother earth. (Or a partner ritual, or a solo ritual...) Nowadays many groups meditate for the well being and healing of our planet. By using sex magick we can actively send healing to the planet who gave birth to all of us. The bible states that our bodies are made from dust of the earth. With sex magick we can return mother earth some of this gift.
After orgasm you may wish to confirm your magick with the words: "So mote it be" and to give thanks to God/the Goddess and your partner.
It is important to stay close the first minutes after intercourse with your genitals close together. There are two reasons for this:
When having sex your chakras open up and after orgasm you're completely open with part of your energy swirling around you. You need some time to recollect it and get energized again. If one partner rushes away after orgasm you can feel very disappointed, lonely and exhausted because of this reason.
After sex magick the sexual fluids of man and woman are charged with their magical intent; they can etherically absorb this power for their well being and health through the vaginal walls and the head of the penis. It may be clear that when you use a condom it is very unwise to stay close together with your genitals. The charged sexual fluids can be used to charge an amulet or talisman by smearing some of it on them; in case your ritual was for gaining money you can smear it on a coin or paper money you had put on your altar; you can redraw the lines of a sigil for this ritual with it, mix the fluid with wine and drink it with your partner, etc. In sex magick the charged sexual fluids have become the sacred elixir of life, and are in no way dirty. If however you are carrying a sexual transmittable disease it is best to skip this part. When you are doing sex magick alone please know that your sexual fluids form a complete sacrament, although they now contain one polarity, not two.
End the ritual with a banishment.
The heightened energy of your ritual may have attracted astral beings. Make sure to keep them at a distance by reconfirming your banishment, like for instance a visualized circle of protection
Books for further study:
BOOKS
Sexual Alchemy: Magical Intercourse With Spirits, Donald Tyson
Love, Sex, and Magick : Exploring the Spiritual Union Between Male and Female, Sirona Knight
The Tree of Ecstasy : An Advanced Manual Of Sex Magick
Modern Sex Magick : Secrets of Erotic Spirituality, Donald Michael Kraig
Secrets of Western Sex Magic : A Practical Handbook for Men and Women (Llewellyn's Tantra & Sexual Arts Series)
Enochian World of Aleister Crowley: Enochian Sex Magick, Aleister Crowley
Be a Goddess! : A Guide to Celtic Spells and Wisdom for Self-Healing, Prosperity, and Great, Francesca De Grandis