A Tribute To Chris

A Tribute To Chris

A Tribute To Chris

The History

Chris died after being stabbed by someone during a party. Unfortunately, he left behind two sons, a wife, and family and friends that loved him very much. There's no bringing him back, however the memories we have can never be taken away.

A Tribute To My Brother, Chris...With Love

Tribute To My Brother, Chris...With Love

By: Nitebeam

The sky seemed to fall that day,

And the earth seemed to drop away...

they told me that my brother was gone,

And now his memory lingers on.

Heartless world that we live in,

Took my brother away...

Pointless arguement with another,

Cost me and my family, my brother.

With all of us there will never be another,

As this husband, father, son and brother.

He lives in our memories and hearts,

Even though this world he had to depart.

Countless times, we do not understand

How one person could do this to their fellow man,

There is no hate in our hearts today,

For the person that took my brother away.

He will have to live with the burden and shame,

Of this I am sure he has nothing to gain.

So, I give to the world the words of the wise,

"Love thy neighbor" and do not despise.

My brother lives on in our hearts,

For deep down inside, he never did depart.

***We love you Chris and will cherish the moments that we were priviledged to have with you. You will remain a part of us and our lives.***

A Son's Whisper

This poem was inspired by a dream I had. August 15, 2003 by: Nitebeam AKA Renda Romanus

The luminous clouds parted & a glowing shimmer shone through.

Her breath caught in her throat as she heard a voice she knew.

Her eyes returned toward the stone that marked his resting place.

A moan escaped her from within & tears ran down her face.

Again she heard soft words & the sound of his wondrous voice.

Slowly, she sank down ignoring the grass that was dry & coarse.

"Listen mom to what I have to say. I didn't intend to leave that way.

My life was great & I had much fun. I had a loving family, and wife and sons.

You've endured a loss that many go through. And although I'm gone, I'm still there with you.

My breath is in the gently air. The very breeze going through your hair.

I'm the sunflower growing strong & tall. I'm the summer, winter, spring, & fall.

My uniques smile is in the glowing sun. I'm where the children play & run.

My angelic wings take me anywhere. I see you fight the burdens you bear.

I know you have good days & bad. I've seen the tears when you are sad.

Please mom, do not be in sorrow. Live today & dream of tomorrow.

Remember me always, as I know you will. And know that I'm fine & love you still.

I know you miss me & I miss you too. But I'm everywhere, always there with you.

Find the comfort and always know that our paths are uncertain & we all must go.

Keep all of the memories nearby & know that I send comfort when you cry.

Do not let this drag you down. Enjoy the moments, sights, & sounds.

Rejoice in all the memories made. Let happiness allow the sadness to fade.

I must go now, I have much to do. This isn't good-bye, for I'm always with you."

For a moment, she sat in the silence that followed his retreat.

Then she dried the trace of tears & slowly got to her feet.

As she wove her way through the stones marking those gone before,

A peace & comfort reached inside & touched her very core.

As she walked away, a warm gentle breeze ran through her hair.

A smile touched her lips as the voice whispered "love you mom, take care".

Please note: The poems are copywrited and can not be used without the written consent of the author (Renda R. Sadler Romanus)

To Others That Have Lost A Loved One To Violence

There are good days and bad days for those of us that have lost a loved one to violence. There are times that the question arises: How can someone do this to another person?

No easy answers come and yet we go on. My only advice is that we continue to strive to "love our neighbors as we love ourselves". Wouldn't this be a beautiful world if everyone would do that?